Although most ships have a nationality of ownership and most officers are from the same place, there are often 50+ nationalities on most ships, all working in perfect harmony. Because everyone is away from their home seeing the world, arguments about nationalistic values, wars, or politics rarely come into play. At least no more than in the form of a debate. People still retain their opinion as an individual.

Obviously some people will not like you, and you won't like some people but that's a fact of life. Accept it and don't bother fighting with other people. There's more important things to see and do. Years later I have forgotten about any conflicts I had with anyone and blocked out the memory of those I knew didn't like me. There are far too many worthwhile people who demand space in your mental book of memories. Some of these people may not be the easiest to get on with but will leave you with unforgettable memories.

In terms of age groups, the minimum age is 18 and the majority of new staff from dancers to waiters will be in their early 20s, but as people stay longer at sea obviously they get older. Some have been at sea all their working lives and are in their 50s and 60s. This applies to a lot of musicians. Few hotel managers or other senior officers are under 50. As the majority of passengers are over 60 there is not a real issue with mature people fitting in to the environment.

• Greg's tip: It's important to be the kind of person who can relate with all age groups, nationalities, gay or straight as a large percentage of crew on many ships are gay, 50+ nationalities and all ages. The real pleasure is meeting people you would never otherwise have met, who have totally different life stories and experiences. If this doesn't appeal, it may be worth considering a different career!
  

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